Dear Rebecca Valverde Gomes,

I hope this letter finds you well. I recently heard of the issues surrounding you and your son and felt compelled to reach out. As a woman who has had to both face similar, intruding questions and endure ridicule from friends, family, and peers, I am writing to let you know that there are many people in this world disgusted and ashamed of Mahamad’s decision. Moreover, because of the recent information uncovered about Hazan, I am sure that you are feeling many emotions- anger, confusion, and exhaustion to name a few. I encourage you to realize this was not a reflection of you or your family, but rather the social standards set in place. While I know I can offer little to no help for you and your family, I hope that my message has allowed you to see that you are not alone in your endeavors. Many people feel similarly to you, and we all hope that as time progresses, men and women can be held accountable in similar ways. In the meantime, please continue living a modest and decent life.

Warmly,

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